Brigid Slipka

…writings on giving & living

Entries Tagged as 'What is a Gift?'

You Didn’t Have To Do That

November 8th, 2010 · 2 Comments · What is a Gift?, Why do we give?

We initiate a gift in order to create goodwill between ourselves and our recipients. Or we initiate a gift in order to create an obligation that puts recipients in our debt.

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Donations versus Gifts

September 26th, 2010 · 1 Comment · What is a Gift?

I’ve written before that a gift is an exchange that generates goodwill (as opposed to a capital exchange, which generates wealth).  But there’s a difference between writing a check to a nonprofit and buying a sweater for your sister’s birthday. A charitable donation is one-directional.  There is a Giver and a Recipient and those two [...]

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What IS a Gift?

July 20th, 2010 · Comments Off · What is a Gift?

So, crazily, I’ve been blathering on about giving for months and haven’t even defined the durn thing. Duh. Because our conversation can move in so many directions based on what we think a Gift is.  Is a donation to my church a gift?  Is my attention to someone a gift?  Is my discarded bra a [...]

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